"I cried on Obama's shoulder and then he kinda looked off into the distance so that was worthless..."
What follows is cut and pasted entirely from Speak With Authority :
White House Condolence Form Letter in Use Since 2009 [Updated]
Just weeks after Barack Obama was inaugurated, the following story appeared in the New York Daily News:
WASHINGTON - President Obama has adopted role model Abraham Lincoln's practice of writing deeply personal letters to the families of troops killed in battle. He signs them "Barack."
Bill Brennan, the father of Marine Lance Cpl. Julian Brennan, said at first he barely glanced at the letter he had received last week.
"I assumed it was a form letter and then I saw that he had signed it - just 'Barack.' You could tell it wasn't a stamped signature. I was so surprised he signed it with only his first name. We were very touched," the Brooklyn dad said Tuesday.
Without disclosing the details of the letter, Brennan said, "It had some personal mentions about Julian's history. I was inspired to respond."
An aspiring actor, Julian Brennan, 25, was killed by a land mine Jan. 24, the first U.S. combat death in Afghanistan during Obama's presidency.
Obama has since written to the families of about a dozen troops killed in Afghanistan and Iraq. He handwrites the notes, has an aide type them up and then signs the version to be delivered to loved ones.
Now that his first term in office is nearing its end, it appears that practice may have been short-lived. A story recently appeared on the website Click2Houston.com describing the disappointment expressed by the father of a recently killed Marine over the letter of condolence received from the president:
A man who lost a son to the war in Afghanistan is disappointed in the condolence letter he received from President Barack Obama.
Tom Logan, a Willis resident, calls the note late, impersonal, disrespectful and essentially a form letter.
"It opened up a wound in our heart you can't fix. You can't send another letter. You can't make it right," Logan said.
Logan's son, USMC Cpl. Joseph D. Logan, was killed Jan. 19, 2012, along with five other men when the helicopter they were in crashed.
Joey Logan was 22.
The story links to two letters to families of other service members (here and here) also killed in action. I have reproduced the body of each letter below:
|Letter #1, May 9, 2012|
|Letter #2, May 9, 2012|
Around the end of August, a story appeared, first at the Gateway Pundit, about nearly identical letters received by a numbers of families of service members killed in August 2011. At the time, there was suspicion that the letters were signed by a machine, but my analysis dispelled that accusation. However, the letters themselves were indeed form letters just like the May 9, 2012 letters above.
|Letter #1, September 23, 2011|
|Letters #2-#4, September 23, 2011|
|Letters #5-#7, September 23, 2011|
The latter two images are more difficult to make out, but as far as I
can determine, the wording of the final two paragraphs is virtually
identical to the others letters above.
In February 2011, an article appeared on the Austin, TX, Statesmen.com website honoring Marine Cpl. Tevan Nguyen of Hutto, killed in Afghanistan on Dec. 28, 2010. Although an image of the letter is not provided, the article contains the following quote:
"A simple letter cannot ease the pain of losing a child, but I hope you take solace in knowing that his brave service exceeded all measures of selflessness and devotion to his country," President Barack Obama wrote.
This sentence, of course, comes from the now familiar middle paragraph present in all the other letters above.
Finally, in November 2009, a long overdue letter from the White House came to the family of Gregg Wenzel, a CIA operative killed in Ethiopia in July 2003. His family posted the letter online at a site set up to honor this man. Here we find what may be the prototype for the letter the White House continued to send to grieving families for at least the next two and a half years:
|Letter, November 2, 2009|
With more than 1,500 service members killed in Afghanistan since
Barack Obama became president, as well as others (such as Wenzel the CIA
operative) who have died in the line of duty, the above represents a
very small sample of the condolence letters that have gone out from the
White House in the last four years. (President Obama even changed the White House condolence letter policy
to include service members who commit suicide while deployed in a
combat zone.) However, I can find no examples of condolence letters
that do not fit the pattern of those I have presented here. If any are
brought to my attention, I will gladly link to them.
The President may have entered office trying to emulate Abraham Lincoln, but soon surrendered to the less labor-intensive and less personal form letter. For those whose family members have made the ultimate sacrifice for their country, such a letter from the Commander in Chief must be cold comfort. A President whose campaign currently offers 23 different eCards (topics ranging from the repeal of DADT to the end of the war in Iraq to women's rights) should have found the time to ease the pain of these families with a bit more of a human touch.
From Gateway Pundit:
But Obama did send rapper Heavy D’s family a personal letter of condolence.
Jane Horton began crying on the other end of the phone when she learned that Mitt Romney had been using the story of her husband, Chris Horton, who was killed in Afghanistan, as a part of his stump speech.
"Wow," the 26-year-old said. "I had no idea.
"To be honest, I've been through a lot and I'm not a super emotional person but it brings me to tears," Horton said in an interview with ABC News, after being informed of her husband's newfound spot on the national stage. "Not that he's telling my story, but that he's telling my husband's story, it means the world to me.
"One of the last things my husband said to me before he was killed, when I would ask him, 'Chris, what do you need over there? What can I send you?' he said, 'I need a new president,'" Horton recalled.
Obama grants no-holds barred interview with Nickelodeon.
October 9, 2012